Pandemic Friendship When There’s Nothing to Say
I didn’t talk on the phone for a month. This has to change.
This week, I called my friend Hana to say happy birthday and talked for about 40 minutes. The next day, I called my friend Katherine to check on her father’s health.
These conversations sound unremarkable, and they were. But after each one, I was on Cloud 9. Delighted. Giddy. I felt like myself! And I know why: Before this week, I hadn’t talked on the phone to a friend in at least a month.
I realized it when my colleague Tim Herrera tweeted this, and I could relate.
I can see exactly how this happened: I’ve never been a big phone person, but in the past, it didn’t matter. Events kept friendships going, and put me face-to-face with the people I cared about on a regular basis. Happy hours and nights out…